Unlock a Life of Joy: Overcoming Stress and Deception Through Faith
- Manny Ortiz
- Mar 9
- 5 min read
Updated: Jun 6

Are you feeling weighed down by the daily grind? Do the pressures of your career, family, and personal ambitionsleave you stressed and unable to experience true joy? You're not alone. In our fast-paced world, it's easy to get consumed by life's demands, allowing stress to build and impact every waking moment. But what if there was a way to break free and step into the beautiful life God intends for you?
As Philippians 4:11-13 reminds us, we can learn the secret of being content in any and every situation. This isn't just wishful thinking; it's a profound truth that can transform your experience, helping you find spiritual growth and faith maturity.
My Journey Through Anxiety and Depression
I understand how daunting this might sound. I've been there myself, in the darkest moments of dealing with severe anxiety and depression. It felt like a constant assault on my mind, consumed by fear and endless "what if" scenarios. I was crippled, every minute of every day spent in an anxiety-filled state.
Through that difficult period, I learned invaluable lessons. The most significant was recognizing that I was being deceived. I had a choice: to believe the lies that fueled my fear, or to choose to see the blessings and positive things God was doing in me, through me, and around me. This realization was key to my faith journey and finding peace in Christ.
Be Aware of the Deception: Understanding the Enemy's Tactics
The enemy, often referred to as Satan, is a master deceiver. He thrives on mentally manipulating you into feeling unworthy of God's love and convincing you that there's no hope in your current situation. As Bishop T.D. Jakes once shared about a hardship he endured, "I was so distracted by the explosion that I didn’t even see the damage." The "explosion"—the noise and chaos—was a distraction, preventing him from seeing the true extent of the damage and, more importantly, the path forward.
To overcome this, we must recognize the limits of the enemy's power. We often give him too much control over our daily struggles. The Bible states, "The Enemy walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he can devour" (1 Peter 5:8). Notice the words: "roaring," not biting; "seeking," not devouring. He doesn't have the power to consume the life of a believer. If you have accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, the Spirit of God dwells within you, and that Spirit is power!
As 2 Timothy 1:7 declares, it is "a spirit of power, of self-discipline and a sound mind." You possess everything you need to combat these attacks and acts of deception. If you're tired of believing the enemy's lies, I encourage you to integrate the following practices into your daily life to deepen your relationship with God.
Steps for New Believers to Cultivate Joy and Peace
Step 1: Pray – Have a Daily Conversation with God
You have direct access to the God of the universe, and He genuinely desires to hear from you. He knows you intimately, for He created you. He seeks intimacy and longs for you to choose Him daily.
Make daily prayer a priority. Find a time that works best for you and commit to it, free from distractions. Simply talk to the Lord as you would a trusted friend. Be vulnerable. Share your struggles, disappointments, and even areas where you feel broken. I've even been bold enough to express anger towards God—He won't be surprised; He already knows. He simply wants you to trust that He can handle it.
I've experienced incredible healing by simply releasing my troubles to Him. As Psalm 55:22 says, "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you." For more guidance, explore our prayer resources for young Christians.
Step 2: Be Still – Find Peace in God's Presence
For me, being still while in an anxiety-filled state with a racing heart felt counterintuitive. Yet, the Bible instructs us, "Be still and know that I am God" (Psalm 46:10). I've learned that stillness is an act of faith. There are things within my control, and many variables and events that are not. I do what I can, but after I've presented my prayer requests to God, I must let them go. They are in His hands now.
This is easier said than done, but trust me, the more you practice stillness and releasing your burdens to God, the more joy and peace you will experience. Stillness beautifully complements prayer. I see it as turning down the mental "radio dial," allowing my inner spirit to align with God's frequency. When I am still and spiritually aligned, I am better equipped to hear His voice. For me, God's voice has almost always been a whisper—an inner prompting providing direction or an answer to a prayer.
Start small, perhaps with a few minutes, and gradually increase the duration. Stick with it and make it a daily practice; it will become easier over time as you grow in faith in Jesus Christ.
Step 3: Know Truth – Equip Yourself with God's Word
This last step is simple yet powerful. To battle the deception and lies of an invisible enemy, you must fill yourself with truth. You must read your Bible. I know the Bible can seem intimidating, and honestly, perhaps a little boring at first glance. However, many different versions are available that are easier to understand and follow.
I promise you that if you make a conscious effort to spend even a few moments reading the Bible each week, you will see a difference in your prayer life and your daily walk with the Lord. You need to equip yourself with the necessary tools to fight deception. Reading the Bible is also one of the primary ways the Lord speaks to us. Through His Holy Spirit, He will give you revelation into His Word—personal insights that speak directly to your soul. You'll feel it—a verse or scripture that profoundly resonates with you, giving you goosebumps just thinking about it! Approach it with the intention of getting to know God, and He will do the rest. You'll be amazed at how the Bible can come alive before your very eyes. Check out our beginner's guide to Bible study for helpful tips.
Final Thoughts: Building a Firm Foundation
As I've emphasized throughout, you will reap what you sow. These practices may feel uncomfortable or awkward at first, but over time, they will become routine. You'll be well on your way to establishing a firm foundation in your relationship with God. This journey is personal, and these are practices you can adopt to strengthen and grow as a young believer. I'm filled with anticipation, knowing that if you take these steps, the Lord will begin a great work in your life!
What steps will you take today to embrace the beautiful life God has given you and further your spiritual growth? Share your thoughts in the comments below!